I found this great idea for a
Bridal Shower over on the
BHG site. The theme is "good advice" for the wife-to-be. What better way to start a marriage than with some sage advice?

When you send out your invitations, make sure to tell the guests the theme and that the gift should reflect a piece of wisdom that the guest comes up with. Examples from
BHG are:
Advice: Celebrate every day. Gift: Champagne flutes or a beautiful cake plate.
Advice: Take turns cooking for each other.Gift: Favorite cookbook and kitchen tools.
Advice: Experience new things.Gift: Travel accessories.
You can include a pre-printed card in the invitation that the guest can fill in such as, "The secret to a successful marriage is....." The card is presented with the gift, and all of the cards can be inserted into a small keepsake book for the bride to refer back to.
Create cupcake flags with different bits of advice on each one. Some may say "say I love you every day," "don't underestimate the power of a hug," "allow each other to have a girl's night or guy's night sometimes," "make each other laugh."
Send your guests home with what else, but a fortune cookie filled with more good advice!
Check out the
story here for more details and invitation idea.